“As teens, we’re all at this wonderful time in our lives where it’s up to us to explore and discover our strengths and what we want to do,” VOX ATL’s Aryanna Brown says.
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By Aryanna Brown
I remember a time where I wanted to be a ninja.
I was around 5, and it was so easy for me to think that could be a possibility.
Twelve years later, I’m facing the reality of having to figure out what I want to do with my life. As I begin my last year of high school and prepare to go off into the “real world,” knowing what I want to be seems like a defining factor of how my life will be.
“What do you want to be when you grow up?”
I dread this question. I’m sure a lot of teens my age do.
For me, I freeze instantly, my eyes shift, I probably look frightened.
Because I am.
I am frightened by the question because it’s something I don’t want to answer, or rather, something I don’t really know how to answer.
The National Institute of Mental Health estimates that 31.9 percent of adolescents have had an anxiety disorder. These days stress comes with the territory of being a teen, and with stress comes anxiety.
Between applying to colleges, keeping up with schoolwork and having to deal with life in general, it can become overwhelming. But deciding what we want to do shouldn’t be a part of mine or anyone else’s only concern.
Even with all my uncertainty, the phrase I hear the most from the adults in my life is, “You’ll have time.” I never believed it, but I realized it’s time I started to.
The secret to figuring out what you want to do is that you don’t need to.
At least not right now.
I realized that it’s OK that I can’t list a definite career path, or even if I can right now, I still have the option to change it.
As teens, we’re all at this wonderful time in our lives where it’s up to us to explore and discover our strengths and what we want to do.
For those who ask us, “What do you want to be when you grow up?” Instead, ask, “What is your aspiration in life?” To answer that personally, in the words of Beyoncé, “my aspiration in life is to be happy.”
Because that’s what’s most important.
Aryanna, 17, attends Rockdale Magnet High School.
This story was published at VOXAtl.com, Atlanta’s home for uncensored teen publishing and self-expression. For more about the nonprofit VOX, visit www.voxatl.org.
